Passive Aggressive Narcissists – Update for 2022
After many years, masks fall off. We see past the facade. Maybe it is more accurate to say: we finally learn self-respect so we refuse to put up with the crossing of our boundaries edges any longer. YAY!
When speaking up against a passive-aggressive person, after having decided it’s not okay anymore for them to continue gaslighting, stonewalling, deflecting, backstabbing and smearing us, their false front will drop to their wobbly knees, and display grotesque colors for our view only. It’s quite the shock.
Once a Passive-Aggressive narcissist exposes his/her unmasked self to their victim, their past fraudulent disguise of good tidings will usually not return with the same custom fit, as before. 🤮
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Passive Aggressive Narcissists and Confrontation
Confrontation is a broad term used by many a Passive-Aggressive Personality to encompass all their partner’s misery brought about as a reaction to this abuser’s disrespectful and demeaning statements and/or underhanded behaviors.
The serpent will retract its fangs and take on the victim role while deflecting blame back onto their prey, claiming that confrontation repels him/her. Thus, when conveying injured feelings, the target looks like the unstable, argumentative partner who enjoys starting fights.
In time, the barrage of belittling insults and degrading actions from the Passive Aggressor will become even more hidden beneath a dismal haze of guilt and self-questioning suffered by the accused. 😔
Since narcissists consider genuine emotions a handicap, they manipulate other’s vulnerabilities to their advantage, always on the win as they take full control of relationships.
Without nostalgic memories or tender thoughts over time invested in relationships, these cold-blooded figures slither away with no warning- while filling their tummies with rats, cockroaches, and bats- when inconvenienced by their partner’s confrontations (AKA: battered feelings).
* My goal is to validate the bizarre ironies that exist in Narcissistic Abuse to help ease the loneliness and confusion that many men/women endure as recipients of these personalities. ❤️🩹
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Stay strong! 💙
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I’m so sorry this happened to you. Do take care of yourself and with this person out of your life, I hope you can let some light into the space he took up. xx
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Stay strong and get away from this person💪🏼🙏🏼
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Thank you ♥️
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Thank you, Eilidh, for such encouraging words ♥️
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Thriving, thank you ♥️. I don’t ever want him near me, again.
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Hang in there – it’s awful this has happened to you!! With him out of the scene than there is room for a good and decent person to enter your life!! I’m sorry you have a health problem to deal with!!
Donna 🧚🏻♀️❤️🙏
https://donnadoesdresses.com
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Thank you, Donna ♥️
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Oh, Tamara, the news simultaneously mortifies and encourages. The former, for obvious reasons, and the latter, because you’ve endured and surpassed.
Here, you cultivate an audience that appreciates and celebrates your qualities. Those winning traits carry you beyond the screen too, Like attracts like. Eventually, you just might meet some of us too. Hey, you never know.
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Thank you, TA; that’d be wonderful, of course. Thank you for your encouragement and kindness. ♥️
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Looks like government has borrowed a few tips from the passive-aggressive school book.
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Get back Jo-Jo …
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Reblogged this on WeakBecomeStrong.
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Thank you ♥️
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Maybe my question is a riddle, maybe rhetorical, but what does it mean when a narcissist refuses to admit to being persecuted? I had an encounter with a person along those lines.
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Although narcissists often play “victim”, maybe this person refuses to admit “being persecuted” because he/she believes they are too “above” such a “shameful” thing.
Of course, non-narcissists (who are Christians) find honor in the painful ravages of persecution since Jesus was horribly persecuted.
Great question!
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I can’t handle passive aggressive perps; its so toxic
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Amazingly accurate! In his perfect world he can’t imagine such a thing happening.
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I know; it’s so underhanded.
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👍
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I read your published poem, and I have a connection with you through my faith in Christ. I can relate to all of that, but for the sake of not being intrusive I won’t expound. Please continue what you are doing, and I’ve read several times that you are a Christian.
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Feel free to expand your experiences, questions and/or observations.
Yes, I am a Christian and personal follower of Jesus Christ as are all true Christians. ♥️
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True
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